What
is BDSM? The letters stand for a lot of different things, depending on
who you ask. The most common and broad definition of BDSM is Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission, Sadism and Masochism.
It's an umbrella term that includes a wide range of erotic activities
that consenting adults use to explore their sexuality together. It can
be light bondage, erotic spanking, or as advanced as suspension bondage
and caning.
If you’re new to BDSM & wanting to explore the kinky side of sex, including BDSM,
all of the equipment options can be overwhelming.
A Blindfold
You have many options for eye coverings. Sex toy store offer a wide selection from blindfolds to fancy hoods. Items around your home like a sleep mask or a wide silk
scarf tied around the eyes are less expensive and equally effective
options.
A Gag
Another sense you can remove from your sub is their ability to speak. Ball gags
stuff the mouth, but depending on the size, they can be difficult for
people with jaw and mouth issues.
Restraints
This is another item commonly seen in kinky scenes, and the options are plentiful. Bondage tape inexpensive,
easy to use, disposable, and is designed to only stick to itself. Soft,
basic, Velcro closure wrist and/or ankle cuffs are also great for
starters.
Body Clamps
Clamps offer so many possibilities. They
can be used on the labia, testicles, tongues and lips, and other parts
of the body.
Dildos & Vibrators
One of the most popular types of vibrators for BDSM are wand-style body massagers.
A cordless version is perfect to affix to someone's body with rope
bondage or bondage tape. Vibrators can be used for pleasure or
consensual forced orgasm
play. Don’t forget, they aren’t just for vulvas and vaginas; penises
like vibration too. It’s also a good idea to also have some
non-vibrating insertables handy, like a butt plug or curved toy like the
Njoy Pure Wand, which is suitable for G-spots or prostates.
